Thursday, September 25, 2014

Single and the City: Am I Maleficent?

…so, about two nights ago, I begrudgingly went to see Maleficent with my mom, my sister, and my sister’s fiancĂ©.  As you probably know by now, the movie is based on Disney’s classic, “Sleeping Beauty,” a film that I obsessively watched so often as a child, I could recite each line – and reenact every scene – by heart.

From about the first twenty or so minutes in to the film, I realized that there were some serious moral stories behind the fairy tale.  Is that news to you all?  If not, I wouldn’t be surprised; I’m always the last to know/figure anything out.  It reinforced the fact, at least in my jaded world, that we were all once happy-go-lucky little girls who naively went about our days smiling and dancing.  That was, until a boy came around and broke our hearts.  And, for some, it only took that one heart-break for us to quickly build an iron-clad wall/barrier so that no one else could ever hurt us, again.  Just like Maleficent, herself, we went from sweet and doe-eyed to vengeful, calculating witches who refuse to forgive, trust, or let anyone else in to our cold, lonely worlds.

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When the movie ended, both the credits and this famous song began to play, simultaneously.  And that’s when I lost my shiz.  I’m kidding.  Kind of.  But I couldn’t stop the tears that were uncontrollably streaming down my face.  Eck.  Why the hell was I crying?  It was a G-rated movie, for god’s sake!  Was it because I hadn’t heard that song since I was a pure, innocent four-year old who played dress-up and knew every word to that said song and movie?  Or was it because I finally realized, at the ripe age of thirty-three, that I, too, had spent the past sixteen years imprisoned by my own protective wall/barrier?

As much as I didn’t really want to see Maleficent (I’m not much of a film buff these days, unless it’s a documentary), I’m really glad that I did.  The movie made me realize that, if I ever want to find love, I have to try even harder to knock down the barbed wire and thorny bushes that surround my heart.  For I certainly cannot let another sixteen years fall by the wayside.
Have you seen Maleficent yet?  If so, what are your thoughts on the film?  I’d love to hear from you!



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